Let’s Talk About Sex
When Salt-N-Pepa released their song “Let’s Talk About Sex” in 1991, it was a bold attempt to have a conversation about sex. Instead of relying on…
The Pure Man Conference
Back in August i had the chance to speak at a conference called Pure Man, which was produced by BRVHeart, the anti-human trafficking task force…
Aching For Eternity
i am aching for Eternity. i am aching for that time when pain and sorrow, anger and violence, lust and dissatisfaction, and envy and striving and…
Some Days It’s A Grind
The journey toward healed sexuality and living from a free heart is long. It requires patience and persistence. The journey is rewarding, however, and the lasting…
#Metoo, Part 2
The issues raised by the #metoo movement continue to reverberate in our culture. And for good reason. The trauma of sexual abuse, whatever form it takes,…
Abundant Life?
There is a question that lingers in the heart of every Christian man who struggles with compulsive sexual behavior. It is a question that for some…
Grieving Hugh Hefner
i saw my first Playboy magazine when i was nine years old. That night changed my life, and not for the better. It wasn’t glamourous. It…
The Cheap Grace Firing Squad
The early, formative years of my Christianity were good for teaching me essentials for what it meant to have a relationship with God. i learned how…
Women, My Porn Use Was Wrong
Whenever i read in the news about another alleged episode of sexual harassment perpetrated by a man against a woman i am always struck by the…
Life Wins
It’s Easter. It’s the day we celebrate Jesus’ victory over the grave. It’s the day we remember that the story didn’t end at the cross. It’s…
Intentional Warriors 