The Cheap Grace Firing Squad
The early, formative years of my Christianity were good for teaching me essentials for what it meant to have a relationship with God. i learned how…
It’s (Not) Complicated
You’ve known for a while what needs to happen, but you have been hoping the situation would just take care of itself. Some relationships can be…
Women, My Porn Use Was Wrong
Whenever i read in the news about another alleged episode of sexual harassment perpetrated by a man against a woman i am always struck by the…
Life Wins
It’s Easter. It’s the day we celebrate Jesus’ victory over the grave. It’s the day we remember that the story didn’t end at the cross. It’s…
Don’t Settle For Small Stories
After an intensive men’s weekend in which i was fully engaged in fighting for men’s hearts that they would be free from compulsive sexual behavior, i am…
Compromising Our Masculinity
Porn is the ultimate compromise of the masculine soul. Porn offers the illusion of beauty, adventure, and relational connection while appealing to the legitimate strength men…
The Graffiti On Your Soul
If your soul were a vacant wall, what graffiti would you write there? What words? What images? Would you dare? How would you even decide what…
Beauty’s Double-Edged Sword
i was young when i first felt the affliction with which beauty can pierce your soul. That way in which something indescribably gorgeous, sublime, and profound…
Bring Your Mess
You’re a hot mess. Bring it. Because so am i. In fact, if you don’t bring it, we probably won’t connect very well. How could we? If…
The Porn User’s Real Ache
Every addict knows the power of a Pull toward acting out. The addictive impulse for porn or sex feels so strong that it must be satisfied immediately.…
Intentional Warriors 