Weep, Little Lion Man
There are countless things that happen on any given day that make me feel inadequate as a man. Most men i know would say the same…
Beauty’s Double-Edged Sword
i was young when i first felt the affliction with which beauty can pierce your soul. That way in which something indescribably gorgeous, sublime, and profound…
The Idol Of Purity
i used to think that what i was fighting for was purity. It seemed fairly obvious. In those early days and months right after my addiction…
Nothing To Lose
Playing it safe comes naturally to me. It comes naturally to most men i know. Taking risks is, well, risky — and there’s that pesky possibility of…
Beat Porn. Be More Passionate.
Yes, you read that headline correctly. However counterintuitive it is, that’s what it says. And it’s not a gimmick. Passion is actually a lost treasure and…
Porn’s Assault On Dignity
When we don’t see people as humans, it’s easier to treat them as objects…like punching bags. Isn’t that what Hitler did to the Jews? If you…
Love My Brokenness?
After my most recent post about healing and brokenness, a good friend asked me if i am willing to love my brokenness. That’s a pretty tough…
To Beat Porn, Practice Awe
Sam Jolman is a counselor in Colorado who recently wrote an intriguing piece for And Sons Magazine titled How to Get Your Innocence Back. It’s not…
To Beat Porn, Reclaim Desire
There’s a current article at Relevant titled “Porn Could’ve Wrecked My Marriage,” which tells the story — at least part of the story — that many men know…
Getting Intentional: No Magic Bullet
Healing Requires Work The magic bullet theory is really attractive. Before my Confession i often wished for one. But God is concerned with healing our…
Intentional Warriors 