I Am Ashley Madison

No. This is not an admission that i had an account with Ashley Madison. i didn’t. And for that i am grateful. But when you consider…

Let’s Talk About Sex?

And Sons Magazine has another great issue out. Dan Allender writes about sex. Read it.

When ‘Sexy’ Sits Next To Me

About one year after The Confession: the point at which all the ugliness of my porn addiction came to light in my marriage, i had to…

Created For Beauty

Andy Crouch, editor at Christianity Today and author of Culture Making and Playing God, has some great thoughts on music, beauty and our design as humans.…

Are You The Next Petraeus?

Everybody seems to have a thought — or more than one — on the Petraeus matter. Emails and other details aside, the question i always ask…

Porn Is Killing Sex

Marc Barnes, a blogger i just stumbled across, wrote a fantastic piece about what he calls “sustainable sex.” He writes with wit and wisdom, and is…

‘Porn Is Box Wine’

At our men’s group this week we discussed John Eldredge’s talk at Westmont College and the implications it has for us dealing with addiction to pornography.…