The Cheap Grace Firing Squad

The early, formative years of my Christianity were good for teaching me essentials for what it meant to have a relationship with God. i learned how…

It’s (Not) Complicated

You’ve known for a while what needs to happen, but you have been hoping the situation would just take care of itself. Some relationships can be…

Women, My Porn Use Was Wrong

Whenever i read in the news about another alleged episode of sexual harassment perpetrated by a man against a woman i am always struck by the…

Don’t Settle For Small Stories

After an intensive men’s weekend in which i was fully engaged in fighting for men’s hearts that they would be free from compulsive sexual behavior, i am…

Compromising Our Masculinity

Porn is the ultimate compromise of the masculine soul. Porn offers the illusion of beauty, adventure, and relational connection while appealing to the legitimate strength men…

Bring Your Mess

You’re a hot mess. Bring it. Because so am i. In fact, if you don’t bring it, we probably won’t connect very well. How could we? If…

The Porn User’s Real Ache

Every addict knows the power of a Pull toward acting out. The addictive impulse for porn or sex feels so strong that it must be satisfied immediately.…

Digging Up What i Threw Away

When i read the most recent post by Ethan Renoe the other day, Porn and the Doughnut Man, i got thinking about a really embarrassing event which…

BrokenHealingnessBrokenHealing

Brokenness. Healing. On either side of me these two realities are my constant companions as i journey through life. Where one ends and the other begins is not…