fighting for free hearts

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    Bring Your Mess

    You’re a hot mess. Bring it. Because so am i. In fact, if you don’t bring it, we probably won’t connect very well. How could we? If either one of us is faking…

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    Recovery Sucks (Not Really)

    i have a confession to make: i haven’t been doing well lately. But like a lot of things, the truth of this reality has been operating below the surface — off my personal…

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    The Porn User’s Real Ache

    Every addict knows the power of a Pull toward acting out. The addictive impulse for porn or sex feels so strong that it must be satisfied immediately. It is overwhelming, to the…

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    The Idol Of Purity

    i used to think that what i was fighting for was purity. It seemed fairly obvious.  In those early days and months right after my addiction to pornography came to light, and when…

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    And Women

    There is a hatred of women in our culture, the dynamics of which play out in the world of pornography in multiple ways. The hatred is…

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    Into The Wild

    There is something about the wilderness. On one hand, it calls to a deep place in men’s souls — as it has since the beginning of time…

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    Nothing To Lose

    Playing it safe comes naturally to me. It comes naturally to most men i know. Taking risks is, well, risky — and there’s that pesky possibility of…